How Are Your Listening Skills?
The following quiz is designed to show you what skills are necessary to be a good listener.
Answer these questions by grading your Listening behaviors. Read the question and think about whether the statements are true of you. If the statement is always true of you, select an “Always” from the menu under the column that says “my grade.” If the statement is not always true of you, then choose “Sometimes”. “Rarely” would indicate that you would rarely or never listen that way.
|I allow speakers to complete sentences before I speak.|
|I make sure I understand the other person’s point of view before I respond.|
|I listen for the speaker’s important points.|
|I try to understand the speaker’s feelings.|
|I attempt to visualize my responses before I speak.|
|I visualize the solution before speaking.|
|I am in control, relaxed, and calm when listening.|
|I use listening noises such as yes, gee, I see.|
|I take notes when someone else is speaking.|
|I listen with an open mind.|
|I listen even if the other person is not interesting.|
|I listen even if the other person seems stupid.|
|I look directly at the person speaking.|
|I am patient when I listen.|
|I ask questions to be sure I understand the speaker.|
|I do not allow distractions to bother me when I listen.|
Score your answers in the following manner:
3 points for each always
2 points for each usually
1 point for each rarely
Then total your score.
Click the link below for the score range within which your score lies.